Well, Well, Well....

So!

We were supposed to close on our house June 1st, as were the sellers of the home on THEIR new house...BUT. The woman we are buying the house from bought the house years ago before getting married to her husband with another guy. (not entirely sure if they were married, engaged, dating, friends or what...) Zack and I have our people doing our paper work, making sure things go through to the right people etc...but just the other day she (she as in the main 'people' I handling all the dirty, time consuming paperwork etc that we don’t have a clue how to go about) called us, and informed us that she JUST saw that there was another mans name on the title of the house, and that she didn’t see it before. (Even though Zack has told her about it, and she told him, she would get on it and it would be no trouble at all...haha) Well, June 1st wont work for either our family or the current owners to close on our new homes....that paper work wont go through, and therefore we are staying right were we are just a bit longer.


I just wish, right now that we could at least have an idea of how long the paperwork will take to go through so we can close! As of yesterday though, she said she hadn’t the slightest clue. Ugh.

I'm slightly upset, but she has done a WONDERFUL job working with us, and has helped SO much I can’t even begin to explain. . . I'm happy she caught it when she did! The real reason that this situation irks me, is simply that we were hoping to get some or most of the basement done BEFORE our daughter arrived, but if this keeps up and June 1st turns into June 18h.... or farther away...(these are just random dates not real strong possibilities) Well, its going to be pushing it to move in, unpack, start remodeling, and all the while be dealing with changes in our daughters behavior and sleeping pattern etc due to all the changes she’s taking in or experiencing at such a young age, on top of being pregnant...ufta. It’s going to be a roller coaster of a ride that’s for sure!!

How is our daughter going to handle the move? The change of sleeping places again, the change in atmosphere ...and if we remodel a bit downstairs the constant changing of the looks of the place…? How are Zack and I going to handle how SHE handles it? When the baby comes and her surroundings are still ever changing, and now she not only has to deal with that, but now to shared attention, a shared mommy and daddy, shared sets of grandparents. I will be recovering from a c-section, and I admit I’m slightly terrified of the possibilities of how all this change in such a short period of time could affect our daughter, Zack, and I. Blatantly, our family as a whole.

Hopefully, by Christmas things will be all settled down. If not by then, right after Christmas. At that time all the hustle and bustle of the move, the new babies’ arrival, and the Thanksgiving and Christmas Holidays will all be gone. Then its just New Years and Kylyns 3rd birthday to deal with! EESH! I don’t like even the look of ‘3rd birthday’ . . . 2nd birthday was ok…but 3rd birthday…Well, it better stop right there. Ugh! Time flies far too fast for me to keep up!